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“Dad, I’m sick…”
Funny that of all of the conversations I had with people around the time of my sudden diagnosis with multiple sclerosis (13 years ago later this month), of all the times I told the story of my “attack," of the recounts of the process, of recurring mispronunciations and misunderstandings; the one thing I see as the most inaccurate telling was the one time I used the word “sick.”
Perhaps it’s that I’m only now spending the majority of the day out of bed after a travel-induced crud that had me clawing for breath, coughing-up Technicolors, and sweating through bedclothes like Regan MacNeil on a devilishly hot August night. Perhaps my fever fried a few brain cells and I’m not yet thinking straight. Still, I don’t think of myself (because of the MS, at least) as being “sick.”
I flippantly summed it up in answering one of your interview questions of me about five years ago when I wrote, “As far as I’m concerned, I’m a healthy person with MS.”
Yes, MS is an illness. But I don’t feel ill. Multiple sclerosis is a disease, but I don’t feel diseased. Some call it a “condition” and I guess I’ll flip a response that yes, I do feel conditional about it…
Part of my body – my immune system – does something to another part of my body that it’s not supposed to. That something happens to be destroying an important part of my electrical wiring, which allows me to function as the rest of my species has evolved.
Still I have a hard time thinking of myself as sick.
I eat the way I do to try to live as well as desired, and perhaps a bit longer. I exercise to a level that will keep my body strong enough to react well to the things life (and MS) throws my way. I find things which make me happy and I feed them. I search out the negative parts of my life in order to prune them away.
In sort, I practice many of the healthy things that healthy people use to get and stay, well, “healthy.”
It might just be that I am recovering from being what I would really call “sick” and I want to distance my day-in-day-out condition from that feeling. Perhaps I’ve deluded myself into believing that my “new normal” is just as normal as everyone else’s. Quite possibly, “The lady doth protest too much, methinks.”
As winter’s grip is loosened and nature’s energies seem renewed, I ask you to reflect on the concept of wellness and illness, sickness and health. I think it’s a good topic of conversation to have with those close to us and a powerful one for quiet ruminations.
What do you think?
Wishing you and your family the best of health.
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